
As I write this update, Tom is in surgery once again. The bypass failed. Tom felt that "things" with his leg just weren't feeling right. Yesterday, there was a visit to the surgeon, diagnostics and now back in for a lengthy surgery. We are assured that we have the "rock star" of surgeons. I hope so...this is of course a long and complicated story, a brief note is all I can offer at this point. Until I hear from the surgeon I know little, I did hear from the surgery nurse that Tom is fairing well in surgery, he's stable. I have internet access while we are staying here at the hospital ~ Tom encouraged me to write an update here so I can keep family and friends updated. Just like him to keep me busy even while he sleeps.
Update: Wednesday, 6:00AM Tom is in ICU. Recovery is painful in spite of efforts to keep him comfortable. After exhausting efforts to repair the first bypass, the surgeon settled on a stent in the upper leg and a new bypass from the knee down. There is blood flow through the new bypass and this is good. All is counting on this new artery to remain open.
Update: Wednesday 1:30PM Tom is looking so much better. He is alert, they are managing his pain using the least amount of meds as they can so he can get up and moving. He stood for a minute today, and this was terribly painful for him. The incisions are hard to think about as there are many. Again, we thank you all so very much for all of your concern, thoughts and prayers that you have offered up for us. You know this helps carry us through tough times.
Danielle is at the hospital with Tom while I am home to take care of our fur kids and now also to get some much needed sleep. Will keep posting as we make progress. Many hugs back!
Update: Wednesday 11:30PM I've been at the hospital again since 6:00PM, returning home now to find the house too quiet. Tom is in the same care unit and in fairly good spirits. He has a lot weighing on him right now, he is worried. He had a blood transfusion this morning, that made a difference for him and will help keep his heart healthier. He was able to walk with the assistance of a nurse and walker, he didn't go but a few steps, but still he was up and on his feet. He has had excellent RNs caring for him.
Danielle spent the day chatting with her dad, helping to take care of him. Allie will have her turn tomorrow. This day certainly ends on a more positive note than it began. I am in awe of the radical procedures that can be done to the human body, yet more so by the fact that the body can come back from such trauma in a relatively short amount of time. While my level of anxiety is high and I feel as if my heart and head may very well explode I have to believe that tomorrow holds the promise of further improvement...
Goodnight!

You know, you've been heavy on my mind today and now I know why! Gosh darn it...tell Tom that this time he stays put in the hospital for a bit. Sending out some extra prayers to comfort and calm you...and of course, heal Tom quickly! My heart goes out to you dear friend...I've got you hugged!
ReplyDeleteMay the surgeons hands be guided safely & your DH be healed. Prayers are lifted for you all ... we are all here for you. TTFN ~Marydon
ReplyDeleteOh, my! What can I say? I hope that all has gone well and you get your honey home soon.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, Sweetie! This is not what I wanted to hear. I pray that the doctors will be able to help him. That their minds and hands will be guided to heal Tom. That he may be back to his old self in no time. Prayers of comfort and peace for you and the girls. Sending lots of love and hugs your way. (((hugs)))
ReplyDeleteOh dear Kim, I am so sorry to hear of the setback. I pray that plan c will go well and that he will fully recover from all of this.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, I am so sorry. I hope all goes well for Tom. My thoughts are with you both.
ReplyDeletethinking of you both and having the rock star of surgeons is comforting to know
ReplyDeleteKathie
Oh Kim, I am speechless. Fingers crossed all improves. Love and prayers being sent your way.
ReplyDeletemuch love and hugs Deb
Oh Kim I'm sending your the biggest hug!! I'll keep you in my thoughts and prays today.
ReplyDeleteOh Kim I'm so sorry to hear that Tom has had this setback...I'm sending tons of good thoughts for the doctors, for Tom and for you! Take care!
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you both. I'll be waiting to hear good news from you later!
ReplyDeleteI'm praying for Tom and also you. Best wishes that all goes well this second time around.
ReplyDeleteOh dear - I hope that things have improved since your post. You and Tim will be in my thoughts all day. Sending hugs your way *s*
ReplyDeleteOh Kim I am so sorry. Prayers and hugs for you both and hope that things turn around soon.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry about the setback. I hope everything goes well with Plan C. Please keep us updated. And hugs to you both!
ReplyDeleteTrust God -- Lean on God....Prayers on sent your way...
ReplyDeleteOh my - I am keeping you BOTH in my prayers. May the wait be short, and result be successful.
ReplyDeletePraying for You, Tom and your Family! Wishing for a speedy recovery!
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I wish I saw this yesterday. I wish I was there to come sit with you. I am praying for Tom and you, I hope our best thoughts and wishes for you, give you some strength and courage. Thanks for the updates!
ReplyDeleteI think your Rock Star Surgeon is going to get this done!! God Bless!
Oh my Kim! I'm sorry to hear that all did not go well. I'm glad Tom knew that something didn't feel right and they have fixed the problem for good this time. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Tom now.
ReplyDeleteStill thinking of you this morning. Glad to hear that things are looking better this morning. I will keep you both in my prayers today. I hope that the pain will subside and the vein will stay open this time. Wish I could be there to sit with you and give you support. I am there with you in spirit! ((((HUGS))))
ReplyDeleteOh Kim, I didn't read this post until this morning. I am keeping you both in my thoughts and more importantly in fervent prayer for healing, relief from pain and stress, and that He has you both wrapped up in His glorious blanket of comfort and peace. I'm lost for any other words except that I am standing firm in Faith that God is in control.
ReplyDeleteKim I am so sorry that this has happened. I am praying my heart out for you and Tom. I wish I were closer to come help worry with you or hold your hand.
ReplyDeleteHUGS and much love! Carin
Oh my Goodness. I am so sorry to hear of this setback. Good thoughts, prayers and BIG hugs are headed your way.
ReplyDeletesending all good thoughts and wishes to you and Tom.
ReplyDeletePrayers and healing wishes to you and Tom
ReplyDeleteHugs too.
Oh Dear Kim and Tom, I am so sad to read this post. I do hope Tom is on the mend now. I can only send you much love and thoughts that this scary time will pass quickly - I wish I could do more. My heart aches for you Kim. Much love, xka
ReplyDeleteSending good thoughts and prayers for both of you.
ReplyDeleteLots and lots and hugs to you... and all the best of Luck to Tom!!!! Take care!
ReplyDeleteYea, finally some good news. Rest well and take care of yourself too. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteOh, Kim and Tom....
ReplyDeleteI hadn't checked in for a bit and I'm so sorry this has been so difficult for you both. I'm glad things are looking better for you, and I'm so pleased that Tom had 'the feeling' and was able to get help FAST. That is no place to be hanging back and thinking oh, it will be OK! God Bless you both, I'm holding a thought for you.
Nan
Oh my goodness, I'll be thinking good thoughts for you both for things to get better for Tom. Take care and thanks for taking time to update your blog for your friends and family.
ReplyDeleteO dear! This is not what we want to hear. I am keeping you and Tom in my thoughts and prayers. Get well soon, Tom.
ReplyDeleteOh my Kim, praying that all will go well, and Tom will make a good and speedy recovery. You take care and get some rest when you can.
ReplyDeleteAahh Kim, so glad to read that things are slightly improved, all my thoughts are with you and Tom, hoping for a full and healthy recovery. Hugs flying over the oceans for you both,
ReplyDeleteLizzie
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Oh, Kim, I haven't been to your blog in a while. I didn't know Tom (and you) were going through this. I will pray. I will hold you in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteSending you love...
(((((Kim))))) Oh I am soo sorry to hear of this setback ;( I am praying for you both, that Tom would recover fully and that you would have the peace and energy you need for this...my heart goes out to you both through this difficult time. I wish I could bring you a meal or something...
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad to hear that there has been good improvement. I continue to keep your whole family in my thoughts. Don't forget to take good care of yourself - try to get some good rest and eat properly. We don't want you to fall ill, too *s*
ReplyDeleteHUGS!!!!!
Libby
Goodness, how things can change quickly. Sounds like your DH has the best of care and a surgeon that can adapt his plans if one or two or ..... fail. Prayers and thoughts are winging your way.
ReplyDeleteKim,
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear there is improvement with Tom, thanks for the updates, good to hear you got some rest yesterday, stay well. Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Oh no!! I am just catching up. I hope all is better still again this morning. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. Hopefully Plan D was the best plan of all!
ReplyDeleteKim, you remain in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad to hear that Tom is coming along, but I know you're very worried--that's just natural. Big hug to your family...
ReplyDeleteI am still thinking of you and praying for the best, that is all I can do. Please keep me informed.
ReplyDeleteStill praying for a full and speedy recovery, I was thinking about your Tom this AM, I hope you get some well needed sleep, stay positive.
ReplyDeleteGod Bless you & your family,
Wendy
Sending gentle hugs and Keeping you in prayer.
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